菲比不尋常

101你好樣的！ 果然搞了顆愛心出來給我看，越來越無可自拔地愛你了。而且另外一面還有不一樣的圖案：

The Middle by Jimmy Eat World
歌詞還蠻勵志的捏！  而且還有一些不錯的簡單片語可以學。

Hey, don't write yourself off yet.
It's only in your head you feel left out or looked down on.
Just try your best, try everything you can.
And don't you worry what they tell themselves when you're away.
It just takes some time, little girl you're in the middle of the ride.
Everything will be just fine, everything will be alright. 
Hey, you know they're all the same.
You know you're doing better on your own, so don't buy in.
Live right now.
Yeah, just be yourself.
It doesn't matter if it's good enough for someone else.
It just takes some time, little girl you're in the middle of the ride.
Everything will be just fine, everything will be alright.
It just takes some time, little girl you're in the middle of the ride.
Everything will be just fine, everything will be alright. 
Hey, don't write yourself off yet.
It's only in your head you feel left out or looked down on.
Just do your best, do everything you can.
And don't you worry what the bitter hearts are gonna say.
It just takes some time, little girl you're in the middle of the ride.
Everything will be just fine, everything will be alright.
It just takes some time, little girl you're in the middle of the ride.
Everything will be just fine, everything will be alright.

It's another movie that I've been talking about going into the theater and seeing it for ages but never did it. Although my brother’s act of buying the pirated VCD at the night market got my frowning-upon, I finally gave in and sat down with them to see this movie last night.
Before seeing this movie, I’ve heard people saying this movie is just a kids’ version of The Lord of The Rings. Well, after 3 or so hours, I don’t think I would make this kind of comment. It’s not a kids’ version of The Lord of The Rings, but it did remind me of Polar Express when I watched it. It’s not that they have anything in common, but the feeling that it’s a good movie for educating our kids is the same. It talks about love, betrayal, forgiveness, sacrifice and courage. I don’t know if it’s too deep for kids to understand, but I truly got some deep thoughts from some of the scenes.

仔細地看了歌詞之後才發現，原來他在替超人宣洩心聲呢！讓我不禁想到Spiderman裡Peter Parker他爺爺跟他講的一句話，"With great power comes with the great responsibility."是呀！英雄是有光環，但是他們有更多責任跟苦，也是我們凡人不必嚐的吧！？Yeah, even heroes have the right to bleed...  Who said we have to be strong and tough all the time?

Superman  by Five For Fighting

I can't stand to fly
I'm not that naive
I'm just out to find
The better part of me.
I'm more than a bird
I'm more than a plane
I'm more than some a pretty face beside a train.
And it's not easy to be me.
Wish that I could cry
Fall upon my knees
Find a way to lie
'Bout a home I'll never see
It may sound absurd
But don't be naive
Even heroes have the right to bleed
I may be disturbed
But won't you concede
Even heroes have the right to dream.
It's not easy to be me.
Up, up an' away, away from me
Well it's alright.
You can all sleep sound tonight.
I'm not crazy, or anything.
I can't stand to fly
I'm not that naive.
Men weren't meant to ride
With clouds between their knees.
I'm only a man in a silly red sheet
Diggin' for kryptonite on this one way street.
I'm only a man in a funny red sheet.
Lookin for special things inside of me.
Inside of me
Inside of me
Inside of me
Inside of me.
I'm only a man on a funny red sheet.
I"m only a man lookin' for a dream
I'm only a man on a funny red sheet
It's not easy to be me
(boo hoo hoo)
It's not easy to be me.

妳對什麼東西沒有拒絕的能力？
今天我們來聊一點不一樣的，所以不要給我巧克力、烤香腸、麻辣火鍋這樣的答案。
拋磚引玉，我先來講幾個。

DVD已經買回家放了好幾個月，一直到這個週末才有時間、有心思把這片子拿出來看。之前還在上映的時候就聽不少人說不好看，還有人看到一半就離開電影院，當時一直不是很信邪，到底是可以多難看？結果今天下午看完，我有了答案。
不過是「芋頭蕃薯，各有人愛」罷了。（對呀！這成語是我瞎掰的，不過我個人覺得很傳神）

The dawn is breaking

撒可努是我大學四年的偶像，那種會去「追星」的偶像。
我大學時他的名氣還好，
不過參加所謂原住民社團的大學生一定多多少少有聽過他的名字，
他的第一本書「山豬、飛鼠、撒可努」大概是山服社學生人手一本的作品。

今天中午有一個遠從比利時回來的同事來跟我們開會吃飯，她說她比利時的老公把「男人」跟「狗」做了一個這樣的比喻：選男人就像選狗，你要挑那種第一次見面時，它會靜靜地望著妳、不動聲色，等妳有動作它才慢慢靠近的那種。那種第一次見面就撲上來的，不OK。那種妳一幹嘛就跑走的，也不OK。

聽到一個男人把自己當狗來比喻，我想是老天爺在提醒我積欠小葉已久的文章也應該要交稿了。

標題下地果斷而帶有敵意，男性朋友們！（雖然我不知道我有多少男性的讀者）這篇文章不是要與你們為敵，其實我還是愛男人的（羞）只是我想很多的女生其實都還不夠瞭解男人，就像你們也一樣覺得怎麼永遠搞不懂女人一樣。

男人是不是就像狗？讓我先來講一個故事給妳聽。

這是慾望城市裡一集的劇情，這一集中他們在討論：Can you change a man? Charlotte這一次遇到的是一個頗有名氣的餐廳評論家，跟往常一樣，他們約會、認識彼此、愛苗漸長，到了「行房」的那一天、衣服一扒光後，Charlotte嚇了一大跳！因為那男生竟然沒有circumcised!!!（菲比英語小教室：circumcise，對『割包皮』的意思）她覺得很噁心，因為那玩意兒看起來活脫脫像一隻沙皮狗！下一次的見面中Charlotte有意無意的透露出對那位男士的「性」緻缺缺，因為她真的不想再看見一次沙皮狗!但是神奇的事情發生了！那個男生竟然願意為了Charlotte改變自己，願意去get circumcised!故事很美好地發展下去，他們繼續約會，還差一點因為太過激情而讓那男生皮破血流，可是他們兩個都忍耐過去了，直到男生復原的那一天，他們終於有了完美的第一次。完事之後，Charlotte隨口問著他們星期六要幹嘛、想不想怎樣怎樣時，那個男生卻馬上撇清地表示他現在還不想定下來，原因？

女人心事
作詞:陶晶瑩 作曲:陶晶瑩&黃韻玲 編曲:黃韻玲